Why Can’t I Sleep: What Keeps You Awake At Night?

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Do you have trouble sleeping – on a regular basis? What keeps you up at night? Is your dream to sleep like a baby?

Or is it only occasionally that you lay awake and stare at the ceiling, wondering why these kinds of nights drag on forever when all the nights you sleep soundly seem over in a flash?

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Personally, if I was writing this three years ago, I would have said that I don’t have much trouble sleeping. My biggest complaint was that I would stay up too late and don’t like to get out of bed in the morning.

And then menopause happened over the past year to eighteen months. And wow has my sleep ever changed. I went from sleeping well pretty much my entire life, including through 4 pregnancies, nursing 4 babies, and all the years of motherhood – until now.

It’s not all bad. I sleep well some nights! To be honest it is getting better and throughout this tough time of sleeping changes, I have mostly still felt rested every day. I think I attribute that to the good nutrition that I am faithful to each day.

I eat well but far from perfect and I take a lot of supplements that are targeted to my current needs – these are insurance because I know that I don’t get enough nutrition from my food, and targeted nutrition supplements actually do work and are proven to work and help where you need them to help.

It is no fun to lay awake at night when everyone else is sleeping and you really want to be sleeping also – but yet you are wide awake and unable to sleep.

Do you struggle with sleep?

Either first falling asleep when you go to bed. Or waking in the middle of the night – and feeling wide awake and unable to go back to sleep?

Maybe you can finally fall into a deep sleep in the early morning – and then you don’t want to get up when the alarm goes off to signal you need to wake up.

And do you feel rested in the morning?

What Keeps You Awake At Night?

Do you know what is causing your sleeping issues? Are you under a lot of pressure or stress during the day? Have you changed your diet or used a new medication? Are you going through a life change such as menopause? These can all affect sleep patterns and cause insomnia.

It can be difficult to properly wind down from a busy, stressful day. Have you tried any relaxation techniques that can help you transition into a more relaxed state and prepare you for sleep.

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3 suggestions to help you relax before bed:

  1. Meditation. You can practice this in bed before you sleep and it will help you drift off. You’ll be able to forget about your day and allow your mind to fully unwind.?
  2. Yoga. There are a number of gentle yoga styles that focus on light stretching and breathing techniques. These only take 10-15 minutes and can be done just before bed.?
  3. Relaxation Music. You can also listen to relaxation music to help you get to sleep. These range from soothing music tracks to the sounds of ocean waves. These sounds have a particularly relaxing effect and will also help you sleep more soundly.

Is your lifestyle during your evening hours affecting your sleep?  Certain food, drinks and other factors can be associated with you being stimulated instead of relaxed before you go to bed.

3 quick changes to help you get a better night’s sleep:

  1. Avoid eating too close to bedtime. Your body needs ample time to digest your food before you sleep. The best time to eat your dinner is about 4 hours before your bedtime.?
  2. Avoid caffeine. Tea, coffee, and most sodas are full of caffeine, so avoid these drinks after lunch.?
  3. Avoid television and video games before bed. These are far too stimulating and you’ll find it much harder to fall to sleep afterwards.

Next look at your sleep environment. Do you go to bed in a quiet bedroom, away from any other activity in the house? If not, this could be your answer.

Creating a relaxing environment where you sleep is very important. You may need to transform your room into a more relaxing environment to help you sleep better.

3 Tips to help you relax

  1. Keep your room uncluttered with minimal distractions. Don’t watch TV or work in your bedroom. Instead, assign another room in your house for these activities.?
  2. If you have a ticking clock or an alarm with a light up display, get rid of it. Rid your bedroom of as many electrical items as possible or switch them off.
  3. Set your thermostat for a comfortable temperature that’s conducive for sleep, and wear comfortable, loose fitting bedclothes.

A good night’s sleep helps to keep you healthy by giving your mind and body time to replenish.

If you are dealing with stress and/or anxiety that is keeping you from getting restful sleep, we have some tools on our page where we share what we are learning about the brain and how it can help you overcome challenges that are caused by stress.  You can check that out here:  Train Your Brain.

One last idea:  It’s best to sleep in a quiet, dark room, but this isn’t always easy to achieve. If light and noise are an issue, a quick fix is to sleep with earplugs and a sleeping mask.


Natural Sleep Aids – Nutritional Support

Sometimes you try everything and still need a little more help. When that happens to me, I look at my choices for natural supplements that can either help to resolve a problem or aid in a temporary solution.

Here are 2 choices from the #1 Natural Nutrition Company in America – the only brand that I trust to build better health!

Gentle Sleep Complex – this is a unique blend of valerian, passion flower, and chamomile flower to promote restful sleep. It can be used safely to promote restful sleep and is a natural support for maintaining a calm state.

Stress Relief Complex – if it is stress that is keeping you awake, taking a Stress Relief Complex tablet every day keeps the calming ingredients working in your system both day and night. I love this product because, 1) it works really fast to relieve stress – within 30 minutes – so it is great for day time use as well as keeping you relaxed at night, and 2) it’s got healthy ingredients that give you side benefits for better health.

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6 thoughts on “Why Can’t I Sleep: What Keeps You Awake At Night?”

  1. Mystic Comfort

    Lots of great information in your post! I am a night owl, too, and also have never been able to change that. And I love the stress relief complex! I take it every day.

  2. I hear you night owl! Thanks for stopping by and appreciate your feedback. SRC really is an amazing product.

  3. Teressa Campbell

    I also am a night owl. My writing is currently keeping me up at night quite often with deadlines for posts and assignments. In fact, when I’m finished with this comment, I’m going to bed! 🙂 Thanks for the great post!

  4. I just wish I could get my brain to be quiet long enough to let me sleep. Thousands of ideas just roaming around free up there! hehe love your post!

  5. Awe.. that is so true. I feel the exact same way! But isn’t great that we have all these ideas and opportunities.. we are blessed:)

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